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a open apology to users of tk & ur who were offended

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:17 pm
by romeorose
Regarding the posts I made awhile back in efforts to sabotage the TK group in a act of vengenance for being banned for what I feel were wrongful reasons, where I used a username something similar to that of randychambers and made the vile posts that were made in a effort to sabotage TK.... for that I am offering my apology, and hope to make peace with the TK board so that we can all move on, and regain our focus of what the purpose of these two boards is in the first place, Randy Rhoads.


Romeo Rose

Re: a open apology to users of tk & ur who were offended

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:27 pm
by demon
does this include me? :?:

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:30 pm
by cableguyxx
Romeo, I said it in private, but I want to be the first to say, that I respect the effort you are making. I'm glad you took my invention to work things out. Looking forward to moving ahead 8) Onward RR 8)

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:32 pm
by romeorose
To Cableguy, cool, thanks


To Demon, if you were offended by the old posts I made awhile back using different usernames at TK, then yeah that would include you too, it includes all members of UR & TK that read those old posts.

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:44 pm
by demon
well id love to say "apology accepted" but unfortunatly a nasty little 3 part video is making me think otherwise. like i said before in the thread that got you mad enough to make the video in the first place, im willing to move on. i dont agree with many things you say but i am willing to move on. ive been trying to make peace with many people who were mad at me at tk and ur today. i hope i can add you to this list romeo. ive already been succesfull in making peace with ibanezz, and hopefully LoQ if he would answer my apology PM i sent him. unfortunatly adding you to my little list is not going to happen unless you take away the video where you called me a "spawn of satan". when you called me a spawn of satan in that video it was one of the actuall times where i said lol on a computer and actually laughed out loud in reality. just so you know the name demon simply originates from gene simmons stage name. i can assure you im not a spawn of satan. so romeo, now you are left with a choice. delete the video and you and i can make peace and move on or, dont deleate the video and we can continue this bickering untill we die. which one sounds more pleasant??

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:54 pm
by RRfish
RomeoRose, I must confess I was offended, by both those posts and some potty mouth behavior on videos. It is time to move on and your apology is accepted by me at least. Stay on the high road Romeo, by posting that apology, you are definitely going in the right and forward direction. Keep ignoring mean spirited chatter, it's not worth your time. Thanks and Cheers ! :lol: :fish:

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:56 pm
by demon
well nevermind. due to your PM you just sent me i dont think making peace with you is longer on my to do list. unless i personelly get a written well thought out essay of aplogizing you and i are done.

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 7:23 am
by Cpt Matt Sparrow
Hi Romeo

Of the handful of people that have caused controversey on the insular RR community :), you are the first that has said sorry.Hats off to that, none of us are perfect afterall...

Cheers

Matt

ps having eeen the subject too of one of Romeo's barmey videos I personally found it not to be taken seriously. Andy kaufman's alter ego Tony Clifton comes to mind (hint hint ;) )

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 8:24 am
by Trigger
It is the mature thing to do when you say sorry for the wrongs you have done, acting the bigger person is something that we learn to do with experience.
I accept your apology because I see that in part you are an alias and I think it was all of you who felt that guilt. I hope that everyone see's the sincerity in your post the same sincerity others amongst us have seen because accepting others regrets is how you know that friend and foe are mature and considerate.
I find some of those videos very funny and though some were mistakes to make others were incredibly funny and I wonder if some don't realize the irony?

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 9:06 am
by frankus
i know its hard, but try and rise above any of the dicks that dont accept your apology, youve risen above them already, leave them to argue over you.

frank

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 1:40 pm
by Paul Wolfe
No need to apologize. The adults among these two boards should be able to see from the content of your most recent threads that you have let that anger go. Anyone who can't read between the lines and see the change will be offended again for something petty.

Loads of members at both of these sites have attacked me personally over the years and I can only think of one who apologized. The rest just move on like it never happened.

It takes a man to apologize, but it also takes a man to accept it and truly let it go. You've shown yourself to be a man, I'm curious how many others will do the same.

Re: a open apology to users of tk & ur who were offended

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 4:07 pm
by The One
romeorose wrote:Regarding the posts I made awhile back in efforts to sabotage the TK group in a act of vengenance for being banned for what I feel were wrongful reasons, where I used a username something similar to that of randychambers and made the vile posts that were made in a effort to sabotage TK.... for that I am offering my apology, and hope to make peace with the TK board so that we can all move on, and regain our focus of what the purpose of these two boards is in the first place, Randy Rhoads.


Romeo Rose
Apology accepted...

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 4:58 pm
by Rybones
I don't think I would ever accept an apology from anyone who said what was said on Tk. Not because it was said there and not here but because of the content about Randy and Delores. Its distasteful and should NEVER have been said about any human being weather or not its said in anger.

I will simply say this. I'm not big on accepting or making apologies. If you act the right way the first time you will never have anything to be sorry about. What he said was not heat of the moment it was a meticulous conversation that went on for a few hours with him saying the most despicable things.

Its one thing to blow up in person. Its another to type it out on the internet over a period of a few hours and still be that angry to say such vile things.

I don't know who else from this board may have seen it but i saw it all unfold and it was not something a Randy fan would say or even think about saying.

But as Romeo might say...perhaps I'm just being jealous :D

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 5:32 pm
by Paul Wolfe
Rybones wrote:I will simply say this. I'm not big on accepting or making apologies. If you act the right way the first time you will never have anything to be sorry about.
I used to feel that way. Then I realized that, regardless of my intentions, sometimes I offended others and felt bad as a result. In an effort to help both parties make peace, i would apologize.

Making and accepting apologies is a sign of maturity. Many nations on this earth have refused to make and/or accept apologies and we have wars and murders and terrorism...

Rybones, I understand your point of view, and I respect it. Your statement simply sparked a thought process I wanted to voice.

Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 6:03 pm
by Rybones
Thanks Paul.

I'm not drawing a line in the sand or anything when I say this but the only real reason I have a hard time taking this apology (not that I'm the one owed it) is that what was said was drug out over a few hours and even went as far as to create multiple usernames to spew the things that were said.

Its one thing to pop off at the mouth and make amends. It was quote another for me to see those words and the lengths that were taken to make those remarks(i.e. making usernames to pose as other people) as more than just a heated exchange. It was calculated and in no way IMO spur of the moment.

I'm not going to look down on people if they accept the apology and I hope people don't look down towards me for not accepting. Its just how I felt on the subject and wanted to voice my opinion in a clear and rational tone.